Thursday, October 28, 2004

relationship smeelationship

di salah satu episode ajang ajeng yg di MTV (kalo ga salah waktu final), salah satu kontestan, Ditha, ditanya...kamu akan pilih orang yang cinta mati sama kamu atau orang yg memberikan kamu kemapanan.. dan jawaban dia.. kalo orang ini cinta sama saya, dia akan memberikan saya kemapanan. smart answer...

kemaren faney telfon, such along time i didn't hear from her... since i got guilty all over my face. well, ternyata dia ga mikir gitu... soalnya gw ngerasa banget, waktu itu, dia ga enak cerita tentang dibalik lagi ama cowonya.. dan gw malah ngerasa gw manas2in dia... pasti nyokapnya marah kalo tau apa yg udah gw omongin ke faney. but she's my bestfriend, n i want the best for her, bukan cinta mati tanpa usaha, tapi untuk orang se-fragile faney, dia butuh pegangan.
if it takes to tell the truth about how i fell, n she'll hate me for that.. it's okay.

hopefully for me, i got sms dari dia sebelum puasa, about her latest news, dan kemaren dia curhat sama gw ttg semua... i'm all ears fan. it is hard to get out of a long relationship n start a new one, without your family involved. but i just don't get, knapa mereka semua ga bisa be happy for her, kan semua fakta udah jelas...
apasih yg mereka harapin dari seorang manusia.. apalagi manusia yg ga bisa berusaha sendiri buat dirinya.. apalagi buat orang lain.. maybe it's too much story to be burn n closed down, lama2 kan keliatan juga setiap orang punya prioritas beda.. n i dont think their going the same way...
eniwei marriege is not the end of a relationship, it's the beginning.. and i think u should begin with the right person... n the right mind.. not because it's been along therm relationship.

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